Exemplary communication skills, oceans of trust and a tremendous respect of boundaries. Truth is, you need the same things you need in any good relationship to make something like this work – but in bucketloads.
On the flipside, what happens when people who work in the sex industry tell prospective partners, 'Hey, guess what I do for a living?'ĭo most people run…or look aroused? And what happens when love sneaks into the equation as well? Which got me thinking…what's it really like having sex with someone who is the consummate professional? Are porn stars as good in bed as we all imagine? What's it like sharing a partner sexually? I've met lots of people who work in the sex industry as part of my job and know they are no different to you or me generally.
First time sex with anyone you like can be nerve wracking – but imagine what it's like to sleep with someone who has sex for a living?